Some on this blog have complained about the use of labels to denote 'bundles of opinions'. Liberal. Conservative. Democrat. Republican. Gay. Straight. Pro or Anti-Hindu. These complaints struck a cord with some of the feelings I have on this issue. Why do we need someone else...a political party, a social group etc to tell us which opinions and views 'belong together'?

I have a practical answer to this question: most people don't have or want to take the time to think through how they really feel about each issue that is important to our society, particularly if their own life is 'OK' in that particular area. So, they align broadly with a group or party...and vote based on this broad choice, thinking most of the time they will vote 'right' (i.e., consistent with a more thought through personal choice on any particular topic).

This practical consideration, however, doesn't make me feel better about the choices available, as I believe they significantly (and potentially adversely) impact legislation 'on the margin' (i.e., active legislation today).

A few examples:

1. Why does a pro-free trade stance belong with an anti-gay rights stance? Trade doesn't have much to do with religion.
2. Why can't you be pro-teacher and pro meritocracy and pay-for-performance in education (charter schools in America)?
3. Why can't you be pro-Hindu (one of the greatest, and most flexible religions in the world!) without being anti-Muslim?
4. Why can't you be pro-business and pro-gay rights or pro-choice? Who do you vote for if this is the case?

I think it's time we started voting for issues, not parties!!

Almost everything I, and we, do at work or in life revolves around people and our relationships with them. I am fascinated by what makes relationships meaningful and what makes some people more successful than others in life. I have come to the conclusion that separating people's actions from their words is the key to answering some of these questions. In fact, I believe actions are all that matter!

Having said that, I'll caveat my statement by acknowledging the importance of communication, and education in our lives and for society. But at the end of the day, I've found that the only way to 'cut through the crap' and get to the heart of what's right and valuable is to look at actions not words.

How many of you know people who claim to be bleeding heart liberals and who are vehemently anti-globalization? I know a few, who immigrated to America and stay here. How many of these folks have moved back to India (if that's their home country) and stopped working their high paying corporate jobs? None.

How many people do you know who go to the temple everyday and discuss the importance of religion in their lives and decision making? I know a few. Many of these folks drive lavish cars and have a lot of money but would pass by a hungry homeless person without offering them a bite to eat. Also, most don't engage in any significant charitable activity.

How many people do you know who are against allowing legal rights for same sex couples in multi-year relationships (as they believe this is anti-family) but are divorced or engaged in extra marital affairs themselves? I know many...and know there are even more I don't know..most of whom voted for Mr Bush.